"If I really like the girl, Must I ask her to be my gf??"

last SG · 2006-11-25T11:32:04+00:00

can date her in groups: means, go out wid your fren including her, or ask her to be your gan jie

shade343 SG

My friend asked me that question yesterday and I couldnt find a satisfactory answer to it. How would you answer this question?

Ah Gong SG

no

think with your head not with your dick

Kuali Baba SG

No.

hobochua SG

No 3 Very Happy

browniebaobao SG

it's not a must..

but if u like her, dun u want to be with her?

or are u that type that think as long as she is happy, u are happy? no matter who she's attached to?

dokono SG

So how did you answer?

How about she ask him to be her bf instead?

doko

kenn3th SG

understand her first.. trust me u will nt want someone who looks really good what u think is a good character, but actually deep down inside is a money spender.. a bitchy character and a bad heart.

wait till u think that u have known her.. try finding out info about her, test her out, and soon u will know..

shade343 SG

Well its like this, my friend told there was this guy who really like her, and she really like him too. But she wonders whether there is a need to like become gf and bf. she asked me if it was necessary. Cos she said, why cant they just like each other and be contented with it? Whats the purpose of becoming gf and bf?

exustar SG

why not ?

to assure each other know that a special place is reserved for the other in their heart.

to give them the privilege to bitch/whine/moan to the other party should one be in agony

to to enable them to show affection for each other in public without being uncomfortable

to prevent tongues from wagging

it's all about 'status'

BrUtUs SG

not really... cos if u like the gal, u can jz plain treat her nice n do nothing else... like dun mean must take action cos u might feel she can hv a better bf than u......

BrUtUs SG

its jz like marriage... its all for status... but it can also mean official commitment to her...

stellazio SG

let her know ur feelings, if can progress then ask later? if not then nvm lohz. unless u think afetr u ask, she might start avoiding u etc and u dun want to lose her as a friend then also dun ask. but if both parties matured, just let her know.

moongster SG

It means the girl like the guy as a friend.

There is no fire that causes the girl to lose control, i.e. love.

ditzy SG

No, just ask for the sex, and how much for an evening. Laughing

SGpork SG

hmm

not really..like....can be another kind of like

Laughing

Devil1976 SG

Of course not. If not I would be DAMN BUSY man!! Laughing

Devil1976 SG

Depends on how far they wanna go? What sort of relationship and status they are looking for?

Syndicate SG

Hmm.. Cannot say its a MUST. U like the girl, u wan her happy. So if she is happy with another dude. Then must be supportive. So its not a MUST i would say.

Kenashi SG

No loh Mr. Green
tell him to love someone is to set him/her free Laughing

Magnus SG

Yes if it’s love at first sight or lust.